CM West :: Retreat at Puget Sound 2019 {Recap}

I have to say, there is a big benefit to attending events here on the West Coast: my trip to Seattle felt so easy! Little travel time, no jet lag...I flew out of my local airport late Friday morning and was home by bedtime on Sunday. Heading to the East Coast is a delight but definitely requires more planning for and around. :)

Part of the draw of the CM West Seattle retreat is this location. I love Pacific Northwest weather (at least in short bursts!) and the retreat center itself is not only beautiful and updated but sits right on the Sound with water views from many rooms.

view from the room, day 1

and day 3 :)

As you can see above, the weather in Seattle was basically perfect! We had a bit of everything: sunny and warm the day we arrived, cloudy and cool the days after, with some lightning and thunder on Saturday night that we were able to watch move right over the water. We don't get thunderstorms here in California often (maybe once a year?) so that was a treat for me.

And all that GREEN!

I spent a lot of time walking the grounds. I told myself when I agreed to attend that I was going to do as much as I could to make this trip a true retreat for myself. I came out of summer feeling very depleted with a lot of outside work amidst a challenging first trimester -- and then launched straight into our school year without a real rest. This weekend was perfectly timed for just that. I usually bring lots of work to do on the plane, but this time I brought a novel, some spiritual reading, my reflection guides to do some school year assessment and my Mother's Diaries. I spent time with my nature journal, had fun with handicrafts and folk dancing, and spent some quiet mornings by myself in the chapel.

The retreat was perfectly laid out to accommodate such a weekend. The organizers really did a wonderful job. We were put in groups, and after each talk, we spent time discussing with our assigned group. The talks were short and there was plenty of time for narration, hands-on work, and rest. It was wonderfully paced and very refreshing.

My talks were on the last day, and I shared about "Education is a Life" and "Considering Our Three Tools." Other mothers shared about Atmosphere and Discipline the days prior, so I provided the endcap.

I had so many good conversations as well. Lots of great women (and dads and babies too)!

There won't be another overnight event for CM West in 2020, but I think they will have some one-day events in various places in the Northwest. But I'm so glad I decided to go to Seattle this fall.

Recap :: Retreat in Old San Juan 2019

Our annual CM West retreat here in Northern California happened just last weekend and it was such a joy.

It began on Thursday afternoon with an optional Moms' Hike at the Juan de Anza trail. The weather was sunny and chilly and just perfect for a winter walk outdoors.

From there, we headed a couple miles down the road to our retreat center and got started with our official schedule of events.

After our book sale and dinner, I gave the first talk of the retreat, called Principles of the Lesson: How "Studies Serve for Delight." I specifically designed it to serve as a frame for the extended immersion that we had planned for the following morning. Several key components of the method crystalized for me as I prepared this talk, so I'm glad I was able to share those insights into the delightful process Mason's methods can be when student, teacher, and work play the roles they were meant to play.

That night, we finished with plenty of singing, chit-chat, and folk dancing! The Thursday night folk dance has become a CM West tradition now, and I don't think we can ever go back. We learned one hard one and one easy one. Both so much fun.

The next morning I woke up early and took a long walk before breakfast. The grounds at the retreat site are peaceful and lush this time of year.

lots of turkeys!

After breakfast, we began with our Morning Timetable Immersion: two hours spent moving through all different kinds of lessons, from composer study to geography to math to dictation. A feast!

I led short lessons on nature lore, Italian, citizenship, dictation, and century chart. It was tons of fun to teach and learn alongside these moms.

We then offered a reflection time for attendees to think through those lessons from a principles-based perspective, using a guide I put together based on the framing talk from the previous night. I went through the questions myself and it was such a useful exercise for me to think through the lessons which I was teaching and also those I got to play the role of student for. I find more and more that I appreciate quiet moments in the midst of events like these.

After lunch, we brought those guides with us to discuss in small groups and in the larger group, trying to tease out the roles of student and teacher more deeply. Everyone's answers were really thought-provoking and even though I was the one facilitating the discussion, I definitely feel like I left with an even clearer picture of my role as mother-teacher.

The rest of the afternoon was about Afternoon Occupations. Amber gave a wonderful talk on sloyd, and then we broke into two groups to trade off on a nature walk and a sloyd immersion activity. We decided to break each of those activities into beginner and experienced groups to give people a chance to do their own thing if they were already familiar with the practices.

During my assigned time outside, I had a chance to take a nature walk with (fellow-keeper and longtime e-friend) Wendy while some of my friends led small groups of new journalers.

Then it was time for some sloyd fun! Since our family has been been doing sloyd for about a year now, I joined the more experienced table, where we had a chance to use the materials Amber brought to make our own projects while she worked hands-on with the beginner group.  I brought home this adorable sliding pencil tray. Can't wait to get to this lesson with my kids! They were a little jealous. ;)

With snacks and time for leisure, it was a lovely afternoon. That evening we had Mentor Meals scheduled for dinnertime, a chance for attendees to talk with a group of moms on a particular topic, led by a more experienced educator. We had tables on managing multiple grades and getting started in the method, as well as a special table hosted by the teens that attended, sharing from a student's perspective.

After dinner, we planned two activities: a Q+A panel on the morning immersions and a round up of Western Resources.

The next morning, I was up early again to get ready for the day and head out on a pre-breakfast hike with a small group.

After eating, we kicked off the morning with a group memory sketch activity on the painting we had used the day before for our formal picture study. This is an exercise I have done with my children at home a couple times. It was great to see how it worked with this group of mothers!

Then we had an hour and a half of Mother Culture of choice -- more folk dancing, more sloyd, or more time outdoors. Then we came back together for one more talk: Jessica Severne spoke on Education is an Atmosphere.

The relationships that come out of this event just can't be beat. So many wonderful moms join us and I am just so grateful they all come, open and willing, seeking out education, refreshment, and community. It's a blessed opportunity to help organize this weekend.

two of my gorgeous mama friends and their little girls!

new attendees and returners!

And then it was lunch, tear down, and home. 

And then it was time to hibernate for about a week. 

Ha! But we really did have a great week of school when I got home, despite my being tired -- that is how it always is after this event! I get such renewed investment in my work and inspiration for the daily. I love the timing of this retreat for just that reason. And I love seeing these ladies every year: Amber, my fellow CM West organizer, and Jessica, friend and return speaker for our group.

Thanks to all who came, and if you didn't make it this year: I would love to see you at this event in the future. You can sign up at Charlotte Mason West for updates.

Special thanks to Dee Hillman, Matt Vanderpol, and Joanna Overly for sharing some of their photos from the event. You can see more #charlottemasonwest!

(And now I'm turning my sights to Motherwell, coming up in just eight weeks -- will I see you there?)